Little steps transform you… for better or for worse

Little steps, small actions and behaviors transform you… for better or for worse. We may think that we need a grand gesture or a grand event for our personality to be transformed. But that would be wrong. Or, at least, not fully right. It’s true that a big...

The Expansion of Magnetism

Magnetism is an expansive feeling, not a contraction one. In other words, you can’t expect to be magnetic and still feel restricted and contracting inside of yourself. Magnetism (whether personal magnetism or sexual magnetism) is all about expansion and...

The discipline of a kung-fu master, the focus of a zen monk

This week we’ve been discussing about the power of concentration and focus. On Tuesday, we talked about it on more general terms, yesterday we discussed the initial 20 minutes and the buildup of mental energy. Today we are going to talk about how you already...

The first 20 minutes

Yesterday I wrote about the power of mind control and focus. Today we are going to discuss one of the hardest aspects of concentration: the first 20 minutes.The first 20 minutes are the hardest on any concentration effort. This is when the flood of mental...

Mind Control in Daily Life

To develop a certain degree of control over your own mind is not just a matter of personal magnetism or charisma. Sure, control over your own mind is necessary to develop your magnetism. No doubt about it. It’s hard to focus on your energy and influence when...