Are you doing the right thing?

I’ve often receive questions of students who ask whether they are doing the right thing in pursuing a certain goal in their life.

Of course, I can never answer a question like that. I don’t dare to say that I know what’s best for your life.

No else can do that. You need to understand this for yourself.

When you know without a shadow of a doubt that you want to do something, then no question arises. You just know that you need to be doing that something.

You know that you are in the right path. There’s a certain feeling that accompanies it which tells you that you are in the right place.

The problem is when there’s a certain resistance to pursuing that goal. You don’t know if you are doing the right thing. Doubts arise in your mind. Worst-case scenarios and so forth.

You ask everyone but, of course, no one can tell you if it’s the right path for you or not.

The problem is that resistance. You don’t know what it is. Is it a sign from your unconscious that you shouldn’t pursue it? Or is it only your mind sabotaging you from happiness and success?

So indeed the resistance you feel can be only your own fears and doubts. Your hidden limitations or the mind status-quo that don’t want to break out of the homeostasis it finds itself in.


It can be a genuine signal of the universal Will – or whatever you want to call your higher self. Something telling you that decision is bad for you. An intuition or a divine warning if you prefer.

And it’s not often not easy to differentiate both.

That’s tricky part.

You need to understand very well the workings of your own mind and Will in order to know this difference.

In Will Mastery you understand the process that leads you to (any) decisions and behaviors. When and why you activate your Will, how to release those fears and doubts until you get to the essence of that decision.

Mastering the Will means to master your own behaviors and decisions. It doesn’t mean that everything you do will always going to be perfect and the “right thing” – no one can claim that – but at the very least you will have a life that you fully own, you live within your full power.

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