A while back I wrote about why you should accept the attraction from others, even if you are not planning to act on it.
In other words, accept the sexual energy others are projecting to you, even if you don’t have any sexual intentions toward them.
It’s about learning to enjoy the sexual attention from people around you. This is precisely what signals your unconscious mind that you WANT this type of attention – which is sexual magnetism.
Recently a student asked me something a bit more in depth regarding this:
“I would like to clarify what it means to accept the attraction? Does it mean that you acknowledge that you are a charismatic person who gets such things happening in your life?”
That’s correct, but it’s not the only aspect.
Granted that you want to accept this attraction in terms of your own inner voice, rational mind and beliefs. You want to open your arms wide when these kind of things happen – even if you don’t act on them.
You don’t want a negative inner voice or something negative in any way. That is sending a message to your unconscious for these things to stop happening altogether.
But the other, even more important aspect, is energetic.
You can be accepting mentally to yourself all the time, but if there are plenty of internal energetic blocks inside, then you aren’t truly accepting it.
You can say:
“Sure, I welcome all attraction” – but at the same time you are contracting internally and completely blocking your energy.
This way you aren’t really accepting the attraction – or the events that you say/think you are accepting.
So our patterns reveal themselves in these ways if we are observant enough to detect them.
That’s why it’s important to raise your internal energetic awareness and unblock whatever restrictions you have inside to what you want to attract on the external world.
That’s exactly what we do in The Unblocking Process.