On any given day, we have countless options for how to behave and act. We can take an infinite number of actions, yet we often end up behaving in the same way.
You probably won’t wake up tomorrow and decide to drop everything to move to Australia to become a cattle farmer. Most likely, you’ll continue doing what you’ve been doing for most of your life.
There’s nothing inherently wrong with that since we are creatures of habit and find safety in our routines.
The problem arises when those habits aren’t necessarily good for us. When you do things out of neediness or obligation, you suffer the energetic consequences.
It’s easy to understand that when you take action because you HAVE TO or feel forced, it creates a strong internal tension that needs to be released. Some people release this tension by expressing anger towards those close to them, while others develop psychosomatic diseases, panic attacks, or other reactions.
The main point is: an internal tension is always generated when you’re forced to do something you don’t really want to do. There’s a conflict between two (and often more) parts of you — each with strong energetic power. As always, the stronger part will win.
Like the civil war, we talked about last week related to sexual magnetism.
The result of this tension is an internal contraction or a block, as you have no choice but to internally defend yourself. Consequently, your behaviors will become obligatory.
While we all need to do things we don’t want or like to do, the problem lies in this internal tension and the associated blocks.
It’s quite different to attend a meeting because you WANT TOI rather than because you HAVE TO. When you become aware of this internal conflict and its associated energy dynamics, you can ease the conflict and the energetic battle accompanying it.
You can notice the energy that opposes it and how it rises within you. By allowing it to flow, your emotions and overall energy regularize. This enables you to approach the situation with a clear mind and energy, free from the extra weight of the energetic battle.
That’s the whole goal of The Unblocking Process: to ensure your energy flows smoothly, allowing you to have a clear mind over the various behaviors and actions you need to take. Then, they won’t be actions out of obligation, but decisions made with your true will.