Even when they think they are expressing romantic interest, this is still done, NOT from a sexual place, but from a place of asexuality. Almost neutral.
As you can imagine, this kind of attitude doesn’t take you very far.
But this is not a spur of the moment decision.
It’s usually a habit from early childhood or teenage years.
You learn to talk and behave with as minimal sexual energy as possible. Maybe due to a childhood incident, education, or a particularly bad experience.
There can be all kinds of reasons for why this happens.
But it does.
And it’s one of the biggest reasons for not lack of attraction.
As I keep on repeating:
“If you want to have sex, you need to be sexual”
Embracing and using sexual energy in everything you do is the fastest road to a (very) active sexual life.
Talking, moving, listening, touching… when it all comes with a sexual energy in the background, it works like magic!
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