Selecting Attraction

Here’s an interesting question from a student:

“Is there a way I can use sexual magnetism without having to attract those married or already in committed relationship? (Or find a way to screen them)”

The short answer is no.

The only way to screen them is after the attraction is already there and you can simply say you are not interested in pursuing any type of romantic relationship.

Once you get sexual magnetism then it’s not something you can turn on and off.

It’s like a perfume, you can’t really stop other people from smelling it. If they are close to you, they will smell it whether you want to or not.

This is as bad as it is good.

Good because it’s just something that simply happens automatically without you having to think about it.

It’s certainly feels nice to be a sexually attractive man (or woman) and emanate sexually wherever you go.

But bad because it can get you in a lot of uncomfortable situations.

Just like people in committed relationships flirting with you. Or people from the same sex, when you’re not homosexual.

You can’t really pick and choose who will be attracted to you.

You can make a better effort to choose and attract who you want, but you can’t choose who else will get attracted.

That’s just part of being sexually magnetic.

Sure you can block the sexual energy from being projected and close yourself down (energetically speaking).

But, usually, once you recognize those uncomfortable situations taking place it’s already too late for doing this.

And it has the downside that it breaks your own flow of energy, which can be hard to get back in.

Overall, the best alternative is just accept this will happen and handle the situations as they come along.

Eventually you will gain enough tact and subtlety to handle them smoothly.

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