personal magnetism Archives

From a single point to magnetism

Here's an interesting quote by Frank Haddock: "A point has neither length, breadth, nor thickness. Move it in thought any distance in one direction, and you have the line. Move the line FROM its direction any distance, you have the surface. Move the surface OUT of its...

Energy divided is energy wasted

Personal magnetism is born out of alignment. When your behavior, thoughts, emotions, body, and energy all move together, your presence feels strong and natural. When they pull in different directions, your energy leaks away It's easy to see this in action: imagine...

The true antidote to fear and hate

Here's an interesting quote by William Walker Aktinson: "In these days of toxin and anti-toxin — of poison in sausages, oysters, canned beef, ice cream — of anti-toxin serums (that often are more deadly than the original toxin) for the prevention and cure of...

Inner Work and Charisma

In the last few posts (here and here), we explored the importance of inner work and awareness: what they really are, and just as importantly, what they are not. We looked at why it’s so easy to get stuck in overthinking or surface-level introspection, and how real...

The mental phase of personal magnetism

William Walker Atkinson wrote a sentence that’s worth slowing down and unpacking: "The mental phase of personal magnetism depends upon two coordinated manifestations of mental power, as follows: (1) the holding of certain mental states until the mental atmosphere...

The bad shortcut

This week, we’ve been talking about energy density — that grounded, magnetic presence you can feel when someone truly shows up. It’s not about charm or posture. It’s deeper than that since it comes from being clear, honest, and aligned with a real sense of purpose. We...

The shortcut to energy density

On our last email, we talked about energy density — the weight your magnetism carries — and how it's linked to having a clear purpose or desire. That kind of clarity doesn’t come out of nowhere since it takes some internal alignment. You need to feel whole, like...

The density of your energy

Here's an interesting question from a student: "In certain individuals the density of sexual magnetism is pretty strong, they instantly trigger a reaction in the people that came in contact with them. That's especially true for women, so I was wondering, is it...

Neither attract nor repel

Here's an interesting quote by William Walker Atkinson: "Even the weaker individuals, or using personal magnetism unconsciously, exert at least some degree of influence upon those around them. It requires but a moment’s thought to recognize that some persons emanate...

The non-magnetic man

Here's an interesting quote by Hector Durville: "The non-magnetic man irritates you. If you are hard to deal with, he worsens your harshness and ill-temper; if you are in low spirits, he darkens your horizons even more; if you feel unhappy, his presence seems to weigh...