It’s clear that we often experience inner conflicts. We may want one thing, but another part of us desires something else entirely.

This is especially noticeable when it comes to sexual magnetism.

In fact, it’s common to have not just two but several different impulses attempting to get our attention when we feel sexual attraction. Each impulse fights for the spotlight and its own interests.

Think about what happens during a date or an interaction with someone you’re attracted to. You feel the attraction and naturally want something more to happen with this person. But then, another part of you wants to hide it. You might even have a different impulse that feels the need to block any sexual feelings as if you’re not allowed to experience them. Or perhaps there’s an impulse that can’t let the other person sense your sexual energy, so it suppresses your projection.

I could go on, but the main point is that different impulses want different things and have different goals. There’s a mini civil war inside you whenever something sexual arises.

However, you’ll only experience this as “anxiety” or something similar. It’s as if one word could encapsulate all of this.

The question remains: how can you project clean and wholesome sexual energy with this internal battle going on?

You can’t.

You’ll end up feeling confused, and the person in front of you will sense it—consciously or unconsciously. If they don’t feel a clean sexual energy from you, no attraction can develop.

While you experience this mini civil war as “anxiety,” the other person will perceive it as neutrality. You’re not projecting anything sexual, or if you are, it’s not good or pleasant.

So, what should you do? We need to make peace with these impulses. We need to understand and recognize our different desires and blocks, allowing the energy to flow until we have only clean sexual energy.

This is the goal of our course, Sexual Energy Mastery. Through each exercise, you will start to recognize the different impulses inside you, healing them, until you are left with an enjoyable, pleasurable, and whole sexual energy.