A state of neediness is when you are lacking something. There’s something you need, but you don’t have it. It’s a state of lack.

We experience these states probably hundreds of times per day. We need to eat, sleep, go to the bathroom, etc. Normal bodily needs are fairly easy to take care of, especially if they aren’t associated with more problematic emotional states.

The problem arises when we live in a constant state of need and lack.

This state of neediness is incompatible with both magnetism and manifestation.

Magnetism is a state of abundance, not need. It’s easily observed in sexual magnetism, where we can sense the desperation and neediness of another person from a mile away.

In manifestation, it’s also evident. Neville Goddard put it best: “If you assume your desire and live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact.” Naturally, this is not neediness or lack but rather the state of already having it.

But how can I already have something that I clearly lack? How can I “assume my desire and live there as though it were true”?

If I need five million dollars and clearly don’t see them in my bank account, I feel the lack, which creates a state of neediness. The more I need them, the more I’ll feel it.

When you understand your internal energetic flow, you can immediately recognize a state of need and lack. There’s a distinct energetic signature there — one of tension and contraction. It’s very clear once you are aware of it.

So naturally, this energy needs to run smoothly again. Once you allow the stuck energy to flow, instead of feeling lack and negativity, you’ll feel a state of abundance—as if you already have it. Just like when you look at any one of your past accomplishments and feel good about it.

This is what we work on in The Unblocking Process: understanding and becoming aware of your own internal states so you can recognize tensions and contractions and allow them to flow once again.