“They lose interest in me”

Here’s an interesting question from one of our readers:

“I’m good looking and can attract women easily to me, but they lose interest very fast. What am I doing wrong?”

As you can imagine, it’s hard to diagnose anything with just a couple of sentences and without knowing more details, but I can describe what usually happens in these kind of cases.

This is a typical scenario of having something genetic or external that attracts but not having the sexual energy to back it up.

In other words, you may have looks, social status, wealth or any other source of attraction, but you don’t have enough sexual energy to sustain it.

Believe it or not, it’s a very common scenario.

So yes, even those good looking men and women don’t have it all that easy.

If this was not true, then these good looking men and women will never be cheated on. But even them are betrayed.

The initial attraction might be a piece of cake, but later on either their partners quickly lose interest or worse, they are quickly betrayed by someone who really stimulates women’s “sexual nerves”.

This is what happens with the usual suspects in generating attraction that everyone wants to have (money, looks, fame).

Even if you become wealthy, or good looking or famous, but you neglect your own sexual energy, it’s very hard to sustain any kind of attraction medium/long term.

Sexual energy is the secret not only to sexual attractiveness in general, but also to sustaining it over time in a healthy long term relationship.

To change your own sexual attractiveness, start our Sexual Energy Mastery training here:


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