What can I say to her to break the ice?

Here’s an interesting question from a student:

“There’s a girl I see from time to time that I think is cute. She notices me too I can tell. We’ve never spoken to each other, only made eye contact.

What can I say to her to break the ice? She doesn’t know me.”

This is a frequent question: what to say to break the ice?

More importantly than what to say, it’s HOW you say it.

If your first impact is not one with sexual energy, then your task just got a thousand times harder.

Sexual energy is what creates that initial attraction.

Not the words you say, but the energy behind them.

The words can be anything: from a simple compliment to asking for something. Anything can be an excuse to break the ice.

As long as you keep your attention on what’s really important: your sexual energy.

If your energy is right, then your interaction will also be.

That’s why you can give the same “line” to two different men and each of them will have completely different results.

I really wish I could give you a “pickup line” that would work all the time. Just say the words and attraction is guaranteed.

Unfortunately that doesn’t happen.

Because it’s not about the words, it’s about your own energy.

What do you project as you are saying those words?

Are you projecting sexual energy? Do you have the right intention? Is the energy flowing or are you blocking due to your nervousness?

The most common scenario in the beginning stages is when a student already understands and feels sexual energy, yet completely blocks it when he’s about to interact with someone.

The anxiety is so high, that the body becomes as tense as a bowstring.

You end up blocking all the projection of sexuality from you. So the other person only feels a nervous man taking.

Sometimes it can go well. Maybe she finds it cute. But if you want to maximize your possibilities of success, that’s not the way to go.

As you might expect, attraction doesn’t happen frequently if the energy is not flowing as it should.

We created two trainings that focuses on different aspects of sexual energy:

Sexual Energy Mastery focuses on the development of your sexual energy and internal blocks. And Become a Sexual Man which focuses on the external projection blocks that are preventing sexual energy to come out in interactions.

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