There’s a huge misconception in magnetic training that can confuse and hinder the results of some students.

Magnetism and magnetic influence overall (regardless of the energy you are using), are not ways for you to avoid being direct and avoid your fear of confronting someone else.

For example, if you are afraid of asking someone out or telling someone you are attracted to her, then, using some kind of magnetic covert attraction technique is not going to help you.

If you can’t do it face to face, then it’s much harder to do it remote, long distance or covert.

In other words, if you are using magnetic influence as a way to avoid doing something, then it’s not going to work out very well for you.

If you are fearful, have resistance, internal debates about whether you should do something or not, then your energy won’t flow.

It doesn’t matter if it’s remote or covert, or live. The resistance will be there.

But then you may say:

“Well but I have no resistance or blocks if I’m not confronting someone face to face. It’s a lot easier.”

Yes, it apparently is easier.

Indeed if you are in the comfort of your own home attempting to influence someone remotely, you apparently have no resistance. Of if you are in a social setting at a corner attempting to use your magnetism.

You are relaxed and no resistance seems to be there since you don’t actively need to put yourself at risk. Everything can be done covertly, or without your “target” knowing anything about what you are doing.

But your unconscious knows what you are doing; your energy knows.

The resistance will be there and it will sabotage your efforts one way or the another… Maybe you don’t feel that tense or anxious feelings, but your projection will be little to none, or some other reason.

But this will only happen IF (and only IF) you have resistance or blocks to doing that very same thing you are attempting to do covertly.

If you could do the same thing you are are doing using your magnetic influence face to face, then this resistance won’t manifest whatever the technique you are using.

That’s one of the reasons we place such a great importance in trainings like 10 Steps to Inner Power and The Unblocking Process. Both of these trainings work in your internal resistance and anxiety processes. The first more related to your inner working and the second more related to your energetic resistance and blocks.