One night stand vs long term relationship

Here’s an interesting question from a student:

“In my situation (living in small town, not extensive selection of free women, not going into bars) my chance to find quality women and relationships lies more with long term influencing specific women. And, of course, then I would like to keep the relationship. Is sexual magnetism good in such situation, I mean from creating initial lust etc.?”

This is a common concern with students. Sexual magnetism is still equated into a quick sexual encounter.

But this is a misconception.

With sexual magnetism, it doesn’t quite matter whether you want a long term relationship or a one night stand.

Sexual magnetism is about creating sexual attraction; whether you want that attraction of someone else for one night or for the rest of your life, it’s up to you.

Of course, for a long term relationship – particularly years or decades -, there are other factors that come into play, but if you use sexual magnetism to keep that sexual attraction all those years, you’re sure on a good path.

Sexual Magnetism gives you the attraction which is that important spark of any relationship.

What you do with it, it’s up to you.

Often that spark is the hardest part where most people struggle with. Simply because it’s not logical.

You can’t approach someone else and tell her (or him): “Listen, I have a good job, a stable life and I want to have a relationship with you… now be attracted to me”.

You can try… but the odds are it won’t work.

Attraction is not logical or rational. It doesn’t matter if you have a better life than the jerk with the tattoos. No one is going to be attracted to you by any rational reason.

It’s a completely irrational behavior. That’s why many men struggle with it.

If it was logical, geeks would be the superstars of dating. They would already have figured out an algorithm for it.

But that doesn’t happen.

That’s why you need sexual magnetism. It gives you that irrational attraction. The harder part. Then you can work on all the logical aspects by yourself, but at least you don’t need to concern yourself with the sexual attraction.

Even if your goal is only long term relationships, what do you think it’s easier:

One, getting a woman to agree to be your girlfriend if she has little to no sexual attraction to you


Two, getting a woman to agree to be your girlfriend if she is already ridiculously attracted to you?

Doesn’t seem like a hard question to answer…

To start your path into sexual magnetism start with the training course:
>>> Sexual Energy Mastery

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