The everyday exchange of energy

On every interaction you have during your day there’s an exchange of energy.

Normal people think it’s about the content of the conversation. What you talk about and so on.

But this is only a very small part of it.

It’s this exchange of energy that’s important, not the conversation content.

Right from the first second there’s an exchange of energetic information.

Your energy faces the other person’s energy.

Right on that moment both individuals unconsciously decide how they’ll position themselves in the interaction.

Who is more dominant, who is attracted, who attracts, and so forth.

But this is all an energetic reaction! It’s very important that this concept is fully understood so that you can finally realize the importance of magnetism in your life.

It’s due to this fact that people often have the same experiences in their relationships. I’m sure you have heard before something like: “I’m always attracting the same type of persons”; “Why does this keep happening to me?” and so on.

It’s about the energy that you are projecting. This energy keeps – naturally – attracting the same type of individuals.

In other words, when other people interact with you, they (unconsciously) sense your energy and adjust their own in response to yours. And vice-versa.

You keep attracting people that treat you wrongly not because of luck, but because you keep adjusting your energy to welcome these people into your life.

When you become conscious of this energetic pattern inside, you identify it. Then, when you meet someone and avoid this energetic expression, very quickly, these type of negative people will vanish from your life.

And although we are talking about an individual encountering, the same happens with the energy of a group. When you join a group, your energy will either adjust to the group’s energy or not. And if it doesn’t, you’ll always remain an outcast to that particular group.

It’s not necessarily a bad thing. You just need to find a group that fits to your particular energy.

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It’s not merely about thinking

Here’s an interesting quote from William Walker Atkinson:

“In closing this lesson I wish to caution my readers to refrain from manifesting or feeling anything like fear at what I have said about the use of mentative energy by other people. Remember, that fear in itself is the most negative influence and most weakening mental state known. It renders negative the most positive man if freely indulged in.

No matter how potent may be these mentative currents, there are none that may not be rendered impotent, and ineffectual by your own willpower set in motion by your own desireforce. Each and every one of you have within you, and under your own control, a force that will render you perfectly and absolutely immune from undesirable mentative influence, no matter who may use it against you.

Nature has blessed all of us in this respect—it makes no bane without its antidote, and does not depart from its rule in this phase any more than in any other. It supplies the means of selfprotection to everyone, and always furnishes the defensive weapon to match the offensive one.

As a matter of fact, you are defending yourself constantly, although you may not know it.

Much of this defensive work is done along subconscious lines, but you are doing much of it consciously by the use of your will and spirit of individuality. You are using the mental “No!” all the time—that is, unless you are some poor creature who is afraid to say “No!” even mentally, and if you are that, then this book is doubly needed by you.

There is nothing to be afraid of except fear—so the sooner you cast off fear the better you will be, and the more advanced on the road to mastery. While this is not the place for exercises, still I want each and every one of you to start right in now and form a mental attitude of fearlessness and strength, that you may begin at once to send forth mentative currents of that rate of vibration.

If you do so—and you will, I know—then you will begin to notice an improvement at once. You will begin to realize your increasing power, and you will also see that others are beginning to feel it. Begin today—this moment—to radiate mentative currents of strength and power in all directions.

Stimulate the currents by arousing a strong, intense, burning desire to be strong and to radiate strength vibrations—then back this up by the application of a strong, steady, masterful and dominant will—and then “the trick will be done.”

But right here, remember, first, last, and all the time, that it is not a mere matter of thinking—but a matter of feeling. Thoughts are cold, but feelings are warm, alive and vital. Therefore you must not merely think “I Am Strong,” or say it like a parrot—but you must stir up your nature to its depth, until you can really feel that you are indeed strong and possessed of the radiant energy of mentative force. Feeling is living thought.

Everything that is worth while was produced by this feeling thought. Feeling — Desire — Emotion — Passion — Wanting — Willing — Demanding — these are the things that have creative power. So do not deceive yourself with this “holding the thought,” or any such nonsense of which you have heard so much until you get sick at the mention of the words. It is not simply “holding the thought,” it is “holding the desire,” and backing it up with the will, that does the work. To create a thing you must want it with a burning, eager want that brooks no denial—backed up by a will that knows no such word as “can’t” or “no.”

It’s particularly important you notice what I underlined in bold. Notice that’s it’s exactly what I keep on repeating that it’s not just the thought, it’s everything else combined with the thought. It’s the thought that has the impact on all your body.

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Are you forever in that box?

Here’s an interesting question from a student related the last email that talked about how people make up their minds about you in a few seconds of meeting you:

“Will you be forever in that “box”?”

Of course what you want is to constantly be projecting the type of energy you selected. Your particular kind of sexual energy or personal magnetism.

Then every time you meet someone, they already get that strong image of yourself and you can get the results you are after.

But what if it’s someone you’ve already met before? And you need to change that person’s mind about you?

Very often this is about getting out of the “friend zone”.

Indeed once you are in a box in people’s minds, is much harder to change than to have that first impact already strong and positive, but it is possible.

Particularly if they haven’t seen you in a while, and you have been training your own magnetism.

When you have a good first impression, then your work is already cut out for you. You already got the attraction from the start, or the respect, or the dominance, or the empathy. Whatever you are seeking.

This is what your magnetism is already projecting all the time and, of course, what we are training to get.

But if you are still in the early stages, or not yet, modified this energy in yourself, it’s still possible to change this energy – even if someone has had a negative (or neutral) first impression.

You do need to project a different energy on all the interaction with this person. A particularly strong energy.

And sometimes it’s as easy as having a powerful gaze that you didn’t had before.

People really underestimate the impact of their more subtle projection sources, like the gaze, the touch, the movement.

Sometimes with a simple gaze you can make someone look at you differently from that moment on.

Or with a simple touch.

That’s all it takes.

But it must be with the right energy.

Then that first impression changes to a new one. Hopefully, the one that suits your purposes.

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