Here’s an interesting question from a student:
“How can magnetism clue you into your life path and help you to make better decisions in life?”
That is, in fact, the ultimate purpose of magnetism.
That’s genuine charisma: magnetism can come out of you effortlessly when you are truly connected with your path, with no blocks in your way.
That’s our ultimate purpose. To be in tune with our Will, internally and externally, so that your energy can flow easily.
It’s an apparently easy goal. In short, we only need NOT stop our energy flow – inside and out. Yet, at the same time, it can feel impossibly hard.
Our thoughts, blocks, emotions, mind, everything seems to get in the way!
And so the road to getting there is to learn precisely what prevents a natural energy flow and how we can optimize it.
That’s exactly what we do in all our magnetic paths.
We learn how we can connect with our Will. This will give us a direction. But we also need to clean up our defense mechanisms, such as the blocks created as we grow to defend ourselves from the environment.
Those blocks had a good and worthwhile purpose. They were the best way we knew to protect ourselves from threats. But now, we can figure out the best way. We don’t need to contract our heart centers each time we go on a date. This is not exactly threatening our life.
All these defense mechanisms need to be undone. But of course, for this to happen, you need to know where they are, how they are working inside of you, and start to let go of them.
By doing this through your energy awareness, inner power, and what’s stopping your interaction with the external world (i.e. your projection), you can develop a genuine connection to your Will.
Little by little, you’ll finally begin to listen to your authentic energy – the energy that can now flow without blocks. And this will give you the answers you seek to your purpose and other decisions in life.
That’s the ultimate goal of our path of magnetism and charisma.
Here’s an interesting quote from William Walker Atkinson:
“Not only does the mind need development, but it also needs intelligent cultivation. For it may be developed by improper objects of thought just as well as by the proper ones. A rich field will grow tares and weeds as well as good grain or fruit.
Thought‑culture should not be confined to the development of a strong and active mind, but should be also extended to the cultivation of a wise and intelligent mind. Strength and Wisdom should be combined. Moreover there should be sought a harmonious and normal development.
A one‑sided mental development is apt to produce a “crank,” while a development in unhealthy mental fields will produce an abnormal thinker tending dangerously near to the line of insanity. Some “one‑idea” men have great mental power and development, but are nevertheless unbalanced and impractical. And insane persons often have strongly developed minds—developed abnormally.
It may be said that while the development of the mind must come from within itself, rather than from without, nevertheless, in order to develop, it must have the nourishing material from the outside world in order to grow.
Just as the body can grow from within only by the aid of nourishment from outside, so the mind, while growing from within, needs the material for thought which can come only from without itself. Thought requires “things” upon which to exercise itself—and upon which it is nourished. Without these outside objects, it can have no exercise and can receive no nourishment.
Thought consists in the perception, examination and comparison of things, and the consequent building up new combinations, arrangements and syntheses. Therefore, the perceptive faculties are most necessary to Thought, and their culture is most necessary in the general work of Thought‑Culture.
It must not be lost sight of that in Thought‑Culture there is necessary a variety of exercises and forms of nourishment. That will develop one faculty will exert but a faint effect upon others. Each needs its own particular kind of exercise—each its particular kind of mental nourishment. While it is true that there is a certain benefit gained by the entire mind from an exercise of any of its parts, this effect is but secondary in importance.
A man well developed mentally has been developed in each faculty, each in its own way. The faculty of perception requires objects of perception; the faculty of imagination requires objects of imagination; the faculty of reasoning requires objects of reasoning; and so on, each requiring objects of exercise and nourishment of its own kind‑in its own class.
In some persons some of the faculties are well developed while others are deficient. It follows that in such a case the weak faculties should be developed first, that they be brought up to the general standard. Then a further general development may be undertaken if desired. Moreover, in general development, it will be found that certain faculties will respond more readily to the cultivation given, while others will be slow to respond. In such cases wisdom dictates that a greater degree of exercise and nourishment be given to the slower and less responsible faculties, while the more responsive be given but a lighter development. In Thought‑Culture as in physical culture, the less developed and slower responding parts should be given special attention.”
Atkinson explains why you may have more difficulties developing specific aspects of magnetism and mental control than others. Some will be quite natural to you, while others will be much less.
For some people, developing tension energy is quite easy, while it’s a struggle for others. Yet, they may find it much easier to develop sexual energy.
Yet, we can sure train on what we lack!
A common issue that prevents all magnetism from flowing outward is neediness.
Neediness makes your energy contract; it makes you an “energy vampire” that wants to steal another person’s energy. And that’s everything but magnetic.
A narcissist, for example, has a different strategy. It gives plenty of energy in the beginning – hence they are often quite magnetic when you first meet them – only to steal everything away later. So they are energy vampires the same way, but most likely, it will be hard to recognize them early on – unless you are already trained to know what to look for.
Still, we propose something else. In Charisma School, we suggest sharing your energy all the time. To have a truly abundant mindset and make sure you’re always sharing your energy with others.
This only works if you think of life as a continuous stream of energy.
If you are in a neediness mindset, you feel you are lacking something and need to get it. So the flow of energy stops with you. You get it from others, and it stops there inside of you. You may get it, and you immediately need more.
But when you share, in this type of abundance mindset, you continue with life’s flow of energy. You are receiving it, but you are continuously giving it away, constantly renewing it inside and outside yourself.
You need to understand that the energy is infinite. Just this moment, you can go inside and generate whatever energy you want. If you want sexual energy, you start to feel it, and it’s there.
You don’t need to steal from other people. You already have it.
When you experientially realize this – by actually doing it and not by theorizing -then you have what it takes to be magnetic.
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