Students of sexual magnetism often have a certain belief, or a way to approach sexual magnetism, that is not very conductive to success.
It’s to approach it as if it’s the holy grail.
To place sexual magnetism in a high pedestal.
And there’s a good reason for it.
Sexual magnetism indeed is very powerful and has the potential to change your life in amazingly fun ways.
Particularly if you never had it before, it can be a dramatic change.
But, with that said…
As great as sexual magnetism may be, and as important as the changes it may bring to your life are, you must approach it as something fully normal, not as the holy grail.
Considering the holy grail is that unattainable goal, it will tend to remain that way. It’s something you’ll never reach if you place it on a high pedestal.
It’s like you are saying you are unworthy of it.
This type of belief of sexual magnetism as the holy grail can be in the form of an inner dialogue as if you are constantly repeating to yourself how amazing it would be when you become sexually magnetic. And this way, it’s always something you’ll look to the future – and not to the present.
Instead you want to look at it this way: “How can I become just a bit more sexually magnetic TODAY?”
Not movie star type of sexual magnetism 50 years from now, but how can you become just a tiny bit more TODAY?
It can also take place as an internal feeling. Something you feel it’s beyond your reach. And if that’s the case, you must look at it energetically and release this negative feeling inside.
Allow it to flow. Which is nothing more than accepting sexual energy, sex and everything associated with it in your life.
In other words, the more you accept sexual energy – and sex – as something normal for you, the easier it will be to develop it.
The more you place it as an holy grail, as something as great as winning the lottery, the less chances you’ll have of actually achieving it, since it will be considered by your mind as something unattainable, as something constantly in the future.
This is a key aspect in any process of manifestation, and it’s the same in training any type of energy or magnetism, not just sexual magnetism (that I’ve used now as an example of this principle).
No one ever achieves unattainable goals. But you can be just a tiny bit more sexually magnetic today, you can focus on one thing today that will help you get there. And when you improve just this tiny bit everyday, you can reach your apparent unattainable goal a lot easier!
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Here’s a fantastic quote by William Walker Atkinson:
“All have the ability to concentrate, but will you? You can, but whether you will or not depends on you. It is one thing to be able to do something, and another thing to do it. There is far more ability not used than is used.
Why do not mere men of ability make something of themselves?
There are comparatively few successful men but many ambitious ones.
Why do not more get along? Cases may differ, but the fault is usually their own. They have had chances, perhaps better ones than some others that have made good.
What would you like to do, that you are not doing?
If you think you should be “getting on” better, why don’t you?
Study yourself carefully. Learn your shortcomings. Sometimes only a mere trifle keeps one from branching out and becoming a success. Discover why you have not been making good – the cause of your failure. Have you been expecting someone to lead you, or to make way for you? If you have, concentrate on a new line of thought.
There are two things absolutely necessary for success – energy and the will to succeed. Nothing can take the place of either of these.
Most of us will not have an easy path to follow so don’t expect to find one. The hard knocks develop our courage and moral stamina. The persons that live in an indolent and slipshod way never have any. They have never faced conditions and therefore don’t know how. The world is no better for their living.
We must make favorable conditions and not expect them to shape themselves. It’s not the man that says: “It can’t be done”, but the man that goes ahead in spite of adverse advice, and shows that “it can be done” that “gets there” today.”
This path we undertake in Charisma School – and in life – is not one to become a blind follower of something. It’s not about doing exercise X for Y amount of times. It’s one that demands constant reflection into your own mind and life and then change what needs to be changed to achieve what you want to achieve.
That’s what’s needed to succeed!
I’m giving you the tools to dive deep inside yourself, to “learn your shortcomings”, and to master your internal and external world, but it’s up to you to get there!
A reader of this newsletter, after the last email, asked me the following question:
“If I train my concentration will I become successful at my job and get promoted?”
On the last email I told you that concentration was the closest thing we have to a panacea (a solution to all difficulties)… but it’s still NOT a panacea.
To be successful at your job – regardless of your job – I believe you may need more than simply concentration… even if, concentration is the foundational bedrock under which you can build your skills.
You can think of it as the infrastructure, the cornerstone, over which you create what you want to create.
If the foundation is not there, the whole building can crumble, but the foundation is not the whole building.
Just like Arnold Schwarzenegger as we mentioned on the previous email: even though he used concentration and mental skills, but he still needed to learn about nutrition, training routines, resting, and so on.
“Bodybuilding is much like any other sport. To be successful, you must dedicate yourself 100% to your training, diet and mental approach.”
He applied concentration in what he needed to do – or the “mental approach” as he called it, but there’s still other skills involved.
Concentration gives you a trained mind. It’s up to you to use it… and to use it in a way that is beneficial for your job – if that’s your goal.
You may also only use it a tiny bit, or really push it!
You can have a Ferrari in your garage and take it for a leisurely drive only on a Sunday afternoon next to the sea, when the weather is nice… or, you can take it to the tracks and really push it to the limits!
Once you know how your mind works, have a good concentration ability and are able to intensely focus in what you want, you still need to choose to apply it in your job and in the skills required for your job with an intense determination.
But it all starts with concentration!
Train your mind to achieve this laser like focus in the Concentration and Mind Control training.