Some people still believe sexual attraction depends on what you say, how you dress, or what kind of magic T-shirt you wear. As if choosing the right outfit or memorizing a clever line could magically make someone want you. I wish it were that easy. Life would be...

There’s a current running through you... you’ve felt it before, even if only for a second. It’s not just physical or emotional... it’s deeper than want since it's even older than thought. This current we call sexual energy... and no, it’s not just about sex. This is...

What we talked about in the last email — understanding impulses without being ruled by them — is especially useful when it comes to sexual energy. Sexual impulses tend to hit harder than most. They don’t just stir your thoughts... they rush through the body. They’re...

Our body's impulses can be incredibly strong. When emotions take over, our rational thinking takes a hit, often leading to poor decisions. Think about what happens when you feel angry, jealous, or sad — just to name a few examples. Your heart beats faster, your mind...

Sexual energy is a force we all possess that creates a desire we all experience. No matter how "pure" or "chaste" someone may seem, this energy still exists within them — it's simply a part of being human. This energy can be redirected or transformed in different...

In my last email, I wrote about how you are turning against your body when guilt or shame are present alongside sexual desire. It's like your mind resists what your body feels, which never ends well. But there's an important aspect to it. Accepting and allowing those...

Guilt is often a feeling associated with sexual desires and sexuality overall. You may feel guilty because you desire someone, or because of the desire itself, like it's something shameful that you have to hide. Because of this, you repress that desire and feel guilty...

In the last email, we talked about the civil war inside you, especially the one that arises with each sexual feeling. However, this conflict can happen with all kinds of impulses and desires. So, the most important question is: how do you make peace? How do you end...

It's clear that we often experience inner conflicts. We may want one thing, but another part of us desires something else entirely. This is especially noticeable when it comes to sexual magnetism. In fact, it's common to have not just two but several different...